[08:09] Vanni Cannoli: Good morning and welcome to Koffee
Klatch!
[08:10] Vanni Cannoli: Where we discuss altered states and
altered submissives!
[08:10] Vanni Cannoli: Before I open the discussion, let me
post the usual header: Our discussions
are in text and are in the usual C/Q/R format, meaning type "C" if
you wish to make a comment, "Q" if you have a question, usually
directed at a person's comments, and "R" if you wish to retract
either your C or your Q. If a person has
a question for a specific person on what they said, just say "Q @
[name]"
[08:10] Vanni Cannoli: We generally will promote questions
directed at a person's comment to the top.
[08:10] Lisa Summerland: "Let loose the dogs of BDSM
and let the games begin!"
[08:10] Lisa Summerland: ℓαυgнѕ .
[08:10] Vanni Cannoli: While we are a chatty group, lots of
extra chat makes it "noisy," so if we can please keep that to a
minimum, it would be very appreciated, thank Y/you!
[08:10] Becky Summerland: laughs
[08:11] Vanni Cannoli: The blog for this munch is: https://xaarakoffeeklatch.blogspot.com/ It holds the archive for our munches here
starting Jan 3, 2021.
[08:11] Vanni Cannoli: So as today is Super Bowl Sunday,
which means 1) watching a football game, 2) watching commericials and 3) eating
and drinking horrible but tasty food...
[08:12] Vanni Cannoli: I thought we'd have a discussion on
games in BDSM
[08:12] Ballard: You forgot eying cheerleaders.
[08:12] Vanni Cannoli: Not "being gamed" in a
negative way, but coming up with fun and exciting games.
[08:12] Vanni Cannoli: That too Sir!
[08:12] Vanni Cannoli: And trying on exciting underwear
[08:13] Vanni Cannoli: BDSM affords itself to all manner of
fun "games" to play.
[08:13] Vanni Cannoli: Dungeon games are a usual favorite,
coming up with a way to make that flogging or spanking into a game.
[08:14] Vanni Cannoli: Or doing a D/s sort of game, where
the sub has to perform tasks in a particular way (tied up, nude, nude and tied
up...) etc
[08:14] Brianne laughs hard at "(tied up, nude, nude
and tied up...) etc"
[08:14] Vanni Cannoli: One guy in my First Life community
made a "Wheel of Doom" -- in a scene the bottom would spin it and get
whatever that was...a spank, a flogging, blindfold, etc
[08:15] Lisa Summerland: oooh that sounds fun Vanni
[08:15] Vanni Cannoli: He became quite popular with the
bottom folk looking for a scene. And he
got lots of people to try it out!
[08:15] Vanni Cannoli: Or it's possible to go out into the
vanilla world and do some kind of light bdsm game
[08:16] Vanni Cannoli: One Dom here said a favorite of his
was to go to the store and have his girl get whatever he ordered and put it in
the cart
[08:16] RB Quinn: Two years ago Dash and Ciara made a Wheel
of Doom game here in SL
[08:16] Vanni Cannoli: They got some odd looks from time to
time, and if asked he'd just say "I'm lazy" lol
[08:16] Vanni Cannoli: How fun Sir!
[08:17] Vanni Cannoli: So anyway, turning the discussion to
our august group, have Y/you come up and tried some kind of BDSM game? Anything will do! And it will give our group fun ideas to try
at home!
[08:17] Lisa Summerland: a Wheel of Doom game sounds fun!
[08:19] Vanni Cannoli: you spin it and whatever it lands on
happens to you
[08:19] Brianne: *laughs*
[08:19] Raks: I am sure you would get very dizzy Brianne lol
[08:19] Sam Cabot: C (typing)
[08:20] Vanni Cannoli: Go ahead when you are finished Sir
Sam :)
[08:22] Sam Cabot: Not sure if this qualifies as a game, but
one fun activity I would try was to let the sub roll dice to see if 1 or 2 of
her extremities are left untied, and then which ones (left/right wrists and
left/righ ankles). Those would be left free and then I'd a CNC scene. Resisting
with limited movement can make CNC even spicier and imaginative. #
[08:22] Vanni Cannoli: OH that totally works, Sir!
[08:24] Vanni Cannoli: Thanks Sir Sam *sees everyone taking
notes*
[08:25] Aspen Diamond: Thank you Vanni, There are more games
to play both in both worlds. I had a Dom that I met who live a 100 miles from
me and we use to play the game called pick out of the Jar. It was set up like
the Wheel of Doom.Then the dice game like Sir Sam said, then strip Backgamiin
(sp).
[08:25] Vanni Cannoli: Strip Backgammon????
[08:25] Vanni Cannoli: Is that like Strip Candy Land?
[08:25] Brianne: Yaas!
[08:26] Peaches Svenska eyes widen. "I love Backgammon!"
[08:27] Vanni Cannoli: I like strip head or tails...heads I
strip, tails I strip
[08:27] Vanni Cannoli: win/win! \o/
[08:28] Ballard: Is that like whipping flipping? "Heads I win, tails you lose?"
[08:28] Aspen Diamond: Could be. I had a group that I played
with once which was called Hunt and Play. All of the Doms had water guns and
subs were strip and they had to get to 5 booths before they got shot with the
water guns from the Doms. Who made it first with all five booth won for the sub
who made it.
[08:28] Vanni Cannoli: Sounds interesting!
[08:28] Vanni Cannoli: Squirt guns are cheap on the MP
too...just sayin'
[08:29] Raks: I have a game where the submissive suggests a
topic/subject of her choice and I have to create questions on that topic. This becomes a challenging game for
both. If she gets a question wrong she
get to choose what to use on her bare bottom (or sometimes his)
[08:30] Vanni Cannoli: OH!
[08:30] Vanni Cannoli suggests "Velocities of Unladen
Swallows" as a topic for Miss Raks
[08:30] Raks: Because she chose the subject she had a great
chance of holding out for a while:)
[08:30] Brianne giggles at Vanni, then asks "African or
European ones?"
[08:31] Vanni Cannoli: I don't know that!
[08:32] Ballard: One cannot carry a coconut without feet!
[08:32] Vanni Cannoli: That actually sounds really cool,
Miss, and I bet a bunch of our august group here are taking notes on that very
game!
[08:32] Vanni Cannoli: lol true Sir!
[08:32] Vanni Cannoli: Excellent thank You!
[08:33] Aspen Diamond: Thank you, A lot of board games can
turn into strip games. Smiling just think you are taking your sub on a
picnic...........Mmmmm .
[08:33] Vanni Cannoli: We move to Miss LIsa Swallowland, I
mean Summerland! :P
[08:33] Lisa Summerland: ℓαυgнѕ .
[08:33] Lisa Summerland: Thank you Vanni.......... One "Game" I've experienced once
with a Sub was to have remote control of her "Lovense" toy
device......... https://www.lovense.com/programmable-toys
~~~~It actually was thrilling and very arousingly pleasurable as I listened to
her voice her experience as we 'played.'
She was using the Lush 3 device....
https://www.lovense.com/bluetooth-remote-control-vibrator I've also discovered that there are Sims
here in SL where dances are held and if you have a Lovense device, it reacts to
the music during the dance.......... so there you are with a crowd and many are
experiencing the same pleasures you are......... A
second 'game' that I really enjoy with a sub is 'edge' play.... Having my Sub edge herself for a period of
time but not allow orgasm until we get together in SL.......sweet control and
helping my sub dive deeply into sub head space.....#
[08:33] Vanni Cannoli: I didn't mean THAT Miss!
[08:34] Sam Cabot grins "Wide. "Oh
Lovense...lovense.. that is a boatload of fun"
[08:34] Sam Cabot: Did I say that aloud?
[08:34] Vanni Cannoli will wait until everyone has completed
their orders on the webpage...
[08:35] Lisa Summerland: put my name as a reference for 10%
discount hahaha
[08:36] Lisa Summerland: a club named 'Nuit' is one I know
of DiJana
[08:36] Sam Cabot: There are also group dedicated to Lovense
control.
[08:36] Vanni Cannoli: Amazing!
[08:37] Vanni Cannoli: That's probably why half my
colleagues never have their cameras on during Zoom meetings....
[08:37] Raks: Connected by bluetooth takes on a new meaning
lol
[08:38] Sam Cabot: Vanni, I
promise I don't know your colleagues. lol
[08:38] Vanni Cannoli: Thank You Miss Lisa, and I'm sure
that Lovense appreciates the wave of business they just received!
[08:39] Vanni Cannoli: Actually, having spots in the video
lecture where it activated a Lovense would make my students watch to the
end...although probably not paying much attention...
[08:39] Vanni Cannoli: Yeah...primary group...secondary
group...role...status......mmmmmMMMMMMMMmmmmm.....leadership...
[08:40] Lisa Summerland: hehehe I love how your mind works
Vanni
[08:40] Lisa Summerland: Signs up for all your classes
[08:40] Vanni Cannoli: Thank You Miss! lol
[08:40] Sam Cabot schedulees a zoom meeting with Vanni.
[08:40] Lisa Summerland: zoom zoom zoom !
[08:40] Vanni Cannoli: Thank You Miss Lisa for your
interesting comment!
[08:40] Sam Cabot: I also remembered another activity. Tie
the s typel down naked, with various treats laid out on her (saying her because
I'm straight). Then use different
criteria (whatever the mood strikes that day) to pick what you
lick/nibble off her. See how long she lasts without squirming enough to make
something fall off her body. We can add different rules about permission to
moan, or what happens when one of the treats do fall. This works better in RL
than SL because on SL it's hard to decide when the s type's squirming made
something fall.#
[08:41] Vanni Cannoli: Kinky jenga of sorts!
[08:43] Vanni Cannoli: OH I just thought of another one I
saw at the club
[08:44] Vanni Cannoli: This Dom fellow had two female
bottoms memorize poems, then one would recite on her knees in front of
him. If she got a line wrote, she was
spanked or flogged or paddled. Then keep
going, with more spanks/paddles/flogs for more mistakes
[08:44] Vanni Cannoli: Then the girls switched positions and
the first spanker had to recite
[08:44] Vanni Cannoli: It really satisfied his kinky voyeur
nature and well, we liked watching too oddly enough
[08:51] Aspen Diamond: Thank you, A lot of board games can
turn into strip games. Smiling just think you are taking your sub on a
picnic...........Mmmmm . I do love Edge play and depending on what is coming
next. When I read or hear one of my book how I get wet. I was going to get a
bluethooth one but expensive for now but Mmmmm I us a pantie veb when I do that
on the weekends. I have laid in front of a fire place and laid on my back with
coffee coaster on each knee and if it fell he would spank my pussy with 5
swats. This is with the same Dom who lived 100 miles from me until he got
cancer. I need a Dom/Master or Mistress to teach me that lesson with spelling.
I do great at school but here............it sometimes go's out the window because
I get to excited and fingers go flying.
[08:52] Vanni Cannoli: I am Aspen's agent, please send your
inquiries and finder's fee to me at "Vanni. Behind the Water Cooler. Union Station. Los Angeles."
[08:53] Vanni Cannoli: That sounds rather fun, Aspen,
thanks!
[08:53] Vanni Cannoli: Sir RB, You are next, please!
[08:54] RB Quinn: One could combine the 'squirming sub' idea
with a standard board game. Dominant
invites a friend to play.. say.. Candyland, but the board perched on his sub's
naked torso. While playing, doms allowed
to play with the sub, with an extra move/turn/whatever awarded for making the
sub squirm so much pieces fall off the board. #
[08:54] Vanni Cannoli: There You go, Sir, great idea! *hears more scribbling*
[08:58] Vanni Cannoli: Thank You Sir RB!
[08:58] Vanni Cannoli: Miss Lisa, You are up when You are
ready!
[08:58] Lisa Summerland: Thank you Vanni. Other games that
come to mind are: Roleplaying that you are strangers and meeting at a club or
bar in SL and both of you trying to seduce the other............ Playing sexual "True or Dare." .............A game called "Feather
light" where in SL you attempt to make your Sub or Dom orgasm with only
your words describing how you use a feather on them.... The "Guess Where" game......
Start by thinking of somewhere you’d like your D/s other to kiss. Keep it in your mind and then have them kiss
you in different places until they find the spot. Then switch roles. The "Two truths, one Lie
game" This is a super easy drinking
game that can be played without alcohol.
Tell your partner two sexy truths and one lie. If they guess the lie
right, you drink. If they don’t, they drink.
You’ll learn more about your partners likes and fantasies
judging by what they say. #
[08:59] Vanni Cannoli: Those all sound fun, Miss!
[08:59] RB Quinn: I like all those ideas, Lisa
[09:02] Lisa Summerland: A place to do that is a club called
Satyr, they are adult oriented and have balcony adult furniture for those that
take it to a public intimacy level display.
[09:07] Vanni Cannoli: Does anyone else have an idea for a
game tied to BDSM?
[09:07] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: c
[09:07] Vanni Cannoli: Please, Sir Kirin!
[09:08] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: We had a game with the
scene I was in RL
[09:08] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: We had 3 jars of cards
[09:08] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: one with all of the subs
that were there
[09:08] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: one with the masters/dommes
[09:08] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: and the 3rd was with a
number of different scenes/actions
[09:09] Peaches Svenska: sounds awesome Sir Kirin!
[09:09] Vanni Cannoli: Oh like dirty Clue!
[09:09] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: There were a number of
toys about the room suspension systems and swings, benches and a lot of whips,
paddles, and other toys, vibraters tec
[09:09] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: so who ever was running
the game would draw out of each jar to see who was particpating
[09:10] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: and then the last jar was
drawn to see what was going to happen next.
[09:10] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: I'm sure that you can
read between the lines about that, it was a lot of fun, intense, and also got a
few laughs
[09:10] RB Quinn: That would translate very well to SL!
[09:10] Vanni Cannoli: "Sir Mustard, with Rachel, on
the X Frame"
[09:11] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: And yes that would
translate perfectly here in SL
[09:11] Vanni Cannoli: Yes, could be a fun party night activity
at Blackstone
[09:12] Peaches Svenska: and since there are so many more
subs than dominants, the poor dominants would have to go a few rounds, till
each sub who wanted to play, had the opportunity!
[09:12] яøυɢє ѕνєиѕкα: can I just set myself there
permanently?
[09:12] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: how aweful Peaches *holds
up his scarcasm sign"
[09:12] Aspen Diamond: Rouge that is so funny
[09:13] Vanni Cannoli could easily script a game to do that
[09:13] Peaches Svenska: I'm going to take this on as a
Seraph Aspirant project!!!
[09:13] Sam Cabot: There we go. One of the Seraphs could
plan and organize it. With Kirin's permission because it was his suggestion, of
course.
[09:13] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: Absolutely
[09:13] Ḱιrιn StαrۣۣۜLιght Serevι: as long as I get to
participate :D
[09:13] Vanni Cannoli: We can call it 'Sir Kirin's Night of
Salacious Delights"
[09:15] RB Quinn: Gosh, this was an interesting topic! It must have been, for me to not notice Dae
arriving!!!
[09:19] Vanni Cannoli: So with that, thank Y/you all for
coming and participating in this fun topic!
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